The sounds of love

Alright, as many of my friends and family know, Me+Relationships=Undefined
I keep getting asked the same questions over and over as to why I refuse, yes refuse to be in a relationship with a girl. So here I will expose myself on my blog so that the next time somebody asks me, I'll just refer them to here. Yay for publicity!

First off, I'll say that guys want a relationship just as much as girls do. However, they don't express that around their guy friends unless they're totally comfortable with it or have just had enough. So yeah, this whole "Guys aren't as sensitive" and stuff, is total bull. Get up from under your rock.

Anyways, I'm personally not a fan of relationships. Why? Because everyone makes too much of a big deal out of it, and in the wrong way. Everyone these days wants to be in a relationship, they want to find that special someone as soon as they can no matter what, and usually hope for a storybook ending. I find it...humiliating to be honest with you. We all speak of having and cherishing our independence, but once the subject of love comes up, we'd trade in our independence right there. This is wrong on so many levels and you'd be surprised as to how easily a relationship can deteriorate because of this.

People have become so fixed on looking for love so much that we don't even enjoy the time we have being single. It's no longer become "I want to be in a relationship" but more so that "I need to be in a relationship." And once they get into that relationship they've been looking for for so long, that independence is lost, and they depend on the other person to fulfill their needs in order to make them happy, to complete that"puzzle," which does nothing but put stress on the partner and the relationship. The point I'm trying to make is, if you can't be happy in your life being single, then how the hell are you going to be happy in a relationship without your partner having to fulfill your needs.

Enjoy the single life you have now, fulfill what you can at this moment. Make the single life you have the best you can ever make it and be able to provide your own happiness without relying on anyone else to do it for you. Make your life so interesting that people will come to you without any reason except for that you're a really interesting person. And when you believe your life can't get any better than it is, then choose as to whether or not you WANT (not need) someone in your life to make the Best life you have even better. It's the path of independence and the path of maturity.

I believe that I do lead an interesting life, I'm a graphic designer, a photographer and am currently creating my own clothing line. I have very nice clothes, I live in a very nice house, I have a body to die for (So I've been told) and I'm surrounded by beautiful women every week who I talk to and even take out to lunch sometimes. My life is great and I love it, so why am I not in a relationship? Because even though I believe my life to be awesome, I still believe I can achieve higher than this, however you never know; someone may just pop up and take my breath away.